Next, I want to talk about my gift-giving experience. Some are summaries after numerous lightning protections, and some are suggestions from seniors. In short, it is worth reading (≧ω≦)
We must first understand the importance of giving gifts and the original intention of giving gifts.
A more direct and effective way to improve interpersonal relationships is to give gifts. But this ≠ spending money to buy things and give things away. Sending things is easy, but it is not easy to send ideas. If you don't master the gift-giving skills, it is very likely that you will waste money and the other party will not appreciate it at all. Now for your girlfriend, she is at most unhappy when she receives a gift she doesn't like. If she is in the workplace, she may accidentally break the rules or even break the law.
The second thing is that we must realize that giving gifts is a special way of "expression". Therefore, what matters is not the value of the gift itself, but whether the emotion "expressed" by the gift and the way of giving is in place.
From planning the selection of gifts to receiving the gifts is an operational process, the most important thing is the gift-giving moment. Especially girls, you should be able to receive a lot of gifts on their birthdays, but if you arrange the time for gifts on more formal occasions.
For example, at her birthday party, or when she invited her to dinner, and invited some people to help you take photos and record the beautiful moments.
The sense of ritual can increase the gold content of gifts. That gift has the nature of a "trophy" for the parties.
The second point of experience: light courtesy but a sense of exclusiveness
Because they are all students, the budget is not high, and you have to have a sense of exclusivity, so that the other party can feel your intentions. In short, we must make this gift unique.
For example, if you send a book, your girlfriend's name is customized on the cover. Send a photo frame with a photo of your best friend and your national trip, and it will immediately have the inside taste!
The third point of experience: try to give some things that your girlfriends can use daily
So that she can think of you every time she picks it up, notebooks, wallets, signature pens, water cups, etc. are all good choices. But she probably bought these things herself! !
Therefore, it is still recommended to send accessories, because girls are never too many and not too heavy, and she will wear them often, and there is a secondary social function. Or paint her an oil painting (paint by numbers elephant), you can paint with zero basis, or customize the most beautiful her with paint by numbers, I believe she will feel your intentions!
The fourth point of experience: the weight of the gift increases
Spencer found in his research that if a 30-gram object is hidden in a box of chocolates, it can significantly improve people's impression of the quality of chocolate. He introduced that the link between weight and luxury is applicable to many items, such as plates, cutlery and other tableware, and perfumes and wine. "That's why in restaurants, the sommelier may cleverly pass the bottle into your hand to make you feel the weight."
A single necklace is very light, but if you add a gift box and a matching jewelry bag, the other party will definitely think this gift is well-intentioned and luxurious and high-end.
The fifth point of experience: The more a gift stimulates the senses, the more valuable people will feel.
For example, although the layered packaging of gifts is not environmentally friendly, it can leave a deep impression on people. The fragrance in the box and packaging also helps.
Spencer said: "The brain will integrate the input of each sense organ so that it can determine what the gift is and the value of the pleasure or reward."
When we give gifts, we can put a matching sachet in the gift box, such as a necklace, then the jewelry box is perfect. If it is about an anime character, it is also very wise to add this anime postcard. In fact, many businesses have already noticed this when packaging, so you can be careful when choosing.
